Posts Tagged ‘men’

the ecolab man


There is one man who throughout the past year has been very dear to my heart: the ecolab man. Our friendship began my first month as a graduate assistant (now renamed to senior resident assistant) in the housing office. I was in my office doing Lord knows what, when this man comes to the door. […]

still focusing


I have written before about my quest for focus, and I wish I could report that I am more focused than ever and that is why I have neglected my few faithful readers. But then I would be an unfocused liar. I am at the point in my life where I know I need to […]

Christmas Wish


Dear Santa, Christmas is coming soon and my email and phone are filled with messages asking the infamous question, “What do you want for Christmas?” But Nick, my problem is this: I don’t know. I mean, I know what I really want. I know the things that would be ideal, but I don’t have a […]

So. Today is your lucky day. Today I am going to share a secret with you. I know, how much of a secret is it when I post it on my blog, right? But you see, only like 10 people read my blog. So I feel confident that my secret could actually be safe. I […]



I often agree that when you dress like a slut, then you should expect to be treated like a slut. Is it fair? Probably not. But those are the signals that are sent out when girls dress “scandaliciouosly.” The questions comes, though, as to what qualifies “slutty.” Our culture is the frog in a pot […]

An apple was once considered the forbidden fruit, but sadly, the banana could have caused the fall of Adam and Eve. So, I am leaving breakfast with a banana. Why I have the banana is of no importance to the story, but I thought I wanted to eat it. Well, I was walking to the […]

feeling frisky


It is dark outside. I am sitting alone at a table watching the merchandise knowing no one is going to stop by, but knowing there is no where else at the event I wish to be. So I sit. Alone. A man approaches and begins to make small talk. I like small talk, so I […]